Have some major life changes in past couple of years and just logged in for first time since Nov 2014 and was surprised to see my profile still here. So am updating a little. Am now separated from my wife and have quit drinking/drug use. But curiously am still interested in the sexual quirks which were brought out during my marriage and "use". Have always been very oral, and love the focus that comes from just concentrating on pleasing my partner with my mouth and hands without the distraction of my own pleasure( that can wait). Have always been fascinated by my own cock, love the way it feels and wish I could feel it in my mouth. BUT, since that's not possible have wanted to try touching and sucking on someone else's. Guess that makes me at least bi-curious. Have experience in multi partner sex, been with 2 women a couple of times and threesomes with one lady and an gentleman partner pleasing her with me a number of times. Some of those were with married couples and I the third party, other times were with myself and wife and a male friend, as well as a near stranger we met here. Would like a similar experience with a couple that is comfortable with some male to male experimentation as well as both men playing with the lady. Might be open to just playing with another man but its a little outside my comfort zone. I am physically very fit, but don't look it. I'm carrying 40 lbs more weight than I should in spite of walking 6 or more days a week at work as well as going to the gym at least 3 mornings a week. I have lost 20 lbs in the last 4 months at crossfit and am continuing that trend. In another six months maybe Ill be comfortable with my looks but honestly am not now. I am most at ease with people of my own ethnic background( we are all more comfortable with sameness aren't we?) but am not biased against anyone. Its just a bit more challenging when you have different social backgrounds to discover your common ground. As for a sexual experience Id be most comfortable playing with a couple with a bi or bi curious male, but would consider meeting another man with compatible interests. I cant even honestly say I would rule out a gay man who was interested in showing a mostly straight guy a bit of the wild side:) If my wife, who has a profile here, sees this she might be shocked that I admitted it, but it actually might be easier to have this experience with an experienced gay man than another unsure bi curious man.

My Ideal Person Someone open minded and willing to put up with my first time jitters and my need for discretion.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Well, I would love to be in a threesome with my wife and an
open minded man who didn't object to my touch... Have
seen some photos of threesomes where one man( me in the fantasy)
was being oral with the lady while the other man was inside
her... <br><br>
I am mostly oral, ,, love giving oral and trying it with
a man sometime as a part of a threesome would be a great new
experience

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room, my vehicle at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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