I'm a fun and easy to get along with kinda guy. I'm looking for some fun and friendship. Being fairly new to the "swinger scene," I'd like to meet some people who are just as new and curious as me, or maybe someone who can teach me a thing or two. I'm just a guy looking to expand his horizons with a new friend (or two).

My Ideal Person I've got a thing for redheads, but it's by no means a deal breaker. I want to make some friends, a playmate or two, and see where it goes

If you are bored - you can continue on...
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Ideal..... what an obnoxious word using both societal norms and personal desires to exploit everyone's insecurities....
Sure raises the pressure level for what should be a simple description of what I like....

Im going to throw out some key words and they may be updated as I go along. But truly its just a list of words that is coming to my mind as I sit here at this present moment.
Truth be told - if they all fit or if none of them fit - Its really not that big a deal.
We've already set our personal preferences in the other category and I went through and filled out the questions like a diligent person with a serious profile should do....
And yet - I still have to describe my "ideal" person...

Alright -
Female
Friendly
Flirtatious
Feisty
( - no Im not going for the alliteration award - or using a thesaurus )
Dorky
Smiles
Laid Back
Experimentive
Content
Exhibitionist
Introvert
Comfortable
Bi
Try
Becoming
Forthright
Open
Dominant
Submissive
Caring
Gentle
Ambitious
Provoker
Initiator
Innovator
Secure
Assertive
Aggressive
Fun
Intelligent

I have found that many women are not comfortable in their own skin.... Its upsetting to me. I dont know if this stemmed from the girls in middle school and high school who were cruel and mean (not just to the other girls mind you)..... but I find so many things attractive about so many different women.
I just hate to say anything that would trigger a self conscious reaction.
If I said 6' tall, long red hair, blue eyes, big breasts, super toned legs, and bisexual.... Scientifically I would be talking about less than .1% of the population.... While red heads may be my kryptonite - I highly doubt that Jessica Rabbit is going to fall in love with me. (and dont try arguing that she wasnt bi... that would be silly.... she married a rabbit after all)
If there is absolutely no physical attraction - I will tell you.
But truthfully, there are so many different aspects of a female to appreciate that what I most want... is someone who is comfortable in their own skin, or working on the path to becoming so....
Be proud of who you are. Nothing is sexier than a woman who is working to become more relaxed and in touch with who she wants to become.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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