I'm a BIG (i.e. FAT) Black male. I'm above average and THICK (7x5.5.5")below the waist. However, some women (both big and small) seem to think that's a problem. To me that's their loss and until you try it, you are uninformed. Why don't you ask a few questions before making some assumptions. Don't let past experiences be the rea that you pass on something that might be worth your while. I absolutely look forward to whatever life brings. I just want to try to make it more interesting. If you contact me remember that emails with photos (not necessarily naked) get consideration first. However, intelligent writing will also get my attention.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman, size or race is not important, that likes to have fun and is not judgemental. I've dealt with my share of Tease Match flakes and want to find someone that's real that may want to have a one time fling or become a true FWB.

For the couples that are looking at my profile, I'm NOT bi. Sorry, but that's the way it is. Any other type of arrangement we'll have to work out, but we can at least talk about it. I'm a standard member, so make sure you send me an email and I'll get back to you.

UPDATE. Don't be afraid to send me a note if you look at my profile and like what you see. Whether you are a couple or single female saying hello is a good thing and is a great way to start a friendship.

UPDATED UPDATE 2: I'm finding that BBW's don't want to be with big men. If you don't have that issue drop me a note. Petite/Average sized women I want to hear from you. There's still a LOT you can discover.

I'm looking for a woman, two women or a special couple that want to possibly hook up for a good time on occasion. If you don't have a picture on your profile, make sure you send me one and I'll make sure to send one back in kind.

Just note, if my schedule doesn't match yours I can't help that. Be patient!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
You'll have to ask me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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