. We are an attached couple-a widower male, an IIM MBA and a separated female,a Sophia college alumna -amazingly destined to pair together for kinky amatory exploits and swinging activities a year ago primarily to escape the ennui,if not cynicism, of our humdrum quotidian lives. We feel that swinging is the rage of the current age...the civilised human response against abuses and excesses of sexual faculties and prowess going astray into violence,treachery and the such and for responsible and safe sex for carnal joy without any emotional baggage .Victor Hugo had said that none can stop an idea whose time has come from spreading.We are confident that swinging will surely become de rigueur soon ,to dissipate ,rather sublimate ,the destructive energy contributing to ever-increasing 'kolaveri'(murderous rage) all around into cathartic and recreational sex. WE are aficionados and connoisseurs of gourmet sex(definitely not gourmands) gulping generous dainty dollops of slow-paced,satiating sensual pleasures.We yearn for no-strings-attached liais with affable,genteel and warm couples/ladies,preferably above 40 yrs who exude class and calibre and ooze oodles of oomph and gumption,not necessarily 'good-looking' in the usual parlance but certainly 'good-natured'.We have seen that some of our most memorable sexcapades and sexplosions have been with those past their so-called prime-menopause/andropause -and hence age is no barrier at all.We scrupulously avoid pushy upstarts and whipper-snappers.We are reaably good conversationalists with an irreverant and wry (but not malicious) sense of humour.We steer clear of cheap jibes and tacky jokes.We believe in creating an appropriate ambience for libidinous lust to smoulder thru'endless fondling of erogenous zones with utmost attention to fine detail,mutual respect and adoration in unfettered,unhurried,uninhibited , protracted preludes and seductive foreplays.We emphasise efforts to tickle and titillate the fancies and fantasies of all players with everyone enjoying the trappings of' illicit' sex in a euphoric mood in an ethereal setting.We want to connect with those who have no hang-ups in unabashedly unleashing dark passions and to venture into well-meaning ,clean fun with unabridged abandon which does not inflict any pain or offend the sensibilities or susceptibilities of any one involved and which drive all to the crescendo and cloudburst of exalting, holistic,wholesome sex and the pinnacle of unbounded pleasures.We want to test the full range of consensual sexploration without reining in creativity and with imagination running berserk but,of course,with due discretion and mutual respect. SHE is dominant and prefers to ride her man from the top amidst all the euphonious groans,moans,sighs, screams and shrieks.She wants her mate to pamper and please her from top to toe,exceedingly,almost cloyingly.She loves her partner to explore and savour the flavour and odour of her secretions sensuously.Of late,she has discovered her bisexuality also and likes caressing ,cosseting and cuddling the female pal.Once aroused,she is like putty in the embrace of her playmate ,with her delectable body laying pliant for her partner to relish gently and revel indulgently while she purrs with ecstasy..The irresistibly inviting whiff of her drool-worthy juicy pussy wafting towards any perceptive per can render him or her weak at the knees,succumbing to the temptation to nestle and nudge nostrils in her nether lips , tongue her cute clit and nice niche for an eternity and taste the thunder of her tangy nectar.She loves to squirt on the face of her mates,gushing forth like a faucet.She likes smearing of ice-cream or honey on her perky tits,naughty navel ,armpits and vulva followed by never-ending licks and sucks.Once ignited ,she is an unquenchably raging and roaring lioness, a veritable multi-orgasmic nymphomaniac. HE is like a bee or a beetle to his queens ,being adept at using his tongue and fingers in all the crevices and orifices to stimulate his buddies.He is an inveterate boob-chewer,bum-grabber and pussy-muncher besides being a sharp-shooter;with a few deep, deft strokes,he can make his mates want for more.He can nimbly nibble at the nipples and tantalizingly tweak and twiddle the clit without even the slightest niggle and can expertly lick and suck creating a temporary vacuum which his mates have invariably found to be heavenly.He can be concurrently dominant and submissive and can work up soul-stirring and strikingly satisfying experiences.He is an ace masseur and offers wince-inducing kneads of boobs and bums which serve to catapult his playmates into a divine state of delicious langour in diaphanous dishabille, sharpening the expectancy of the climax. He has mastered the rudiments of foot reflexology too. He is focused on and fascinated by others' pleasures as much as his own. Post-coital repose is as much important as coital encounters for us and hence,those in a tearing hurry can stay out.We love adventurous picnics and long drives in our SUV with compatible friends which end up in flirty ,naughty interludes and steamy romps eventually. We are cleanliness fanatics and safety freaks and are happy with shaven armpits and genito-urinary assets.We find coy and shy ,prudish and puritanical pers,exasperating.We yearn for the company of bold,blatant and brazen buddies.BE WHO YOU ARE AND DO WHAT YOU GENUINELY FEEL...BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DON'T MIND ..but cultural and behavioural fit is a must for tons of fun ,of which we are avid fans.We assure we are never judgemental or opinionated.We are 'swingaroos' of recent vintage and hence can comprehend the initial anxiety, disquiet ,unease and even trepidation of the greenhorns and therefore will put them at complete ease.What we abhor is dishonesty and double-dealing and of course,moralistic posturing on chastity. We are genuinely interested in giving and getting refined signature sexperiences with all the delightful fare and desserts(a platter to please every palate!) in a leisurely pace with grace in an offbeat setting, if possible.An element of adventure we believe, will certainly infuse the much--needed adrenaline sting to cherish the memories of the rapturous sizzle ,howsoever ephemeral or transient that might be, for a long time .We hate quickies;if you can not set aside 4 hours or thereabouts,kindly stay away.Though we are not squeamish or finicky,we prefer to launch links with folks who have the requisite mental standing and the right attitude quotient.We consider clean,healthy and voluntary sex to be the most effective theutic stress-reliever and a deterrent prophylactic against age-related systemic disorders.We travel on work extensively and hence restrict swinging episodes to a maximum of 3 in a month.We are not into cam etc.;we do teletalks and real meetings. We welcome erotic mails with kinky thoughts and innovative ideas to enliven and spice up the rendezvous.We have tried to be searingly honest and brutally frank;we expect those wanting to connect to reciprocate with the same degree ,if not more,of candour.We look forward to exhilarating,even if exhausting,and exciting,even if exacting,sexperiences when we all unlock the treasures of pleasures wound up in each nook and cranny , in every hole and fold of our wonderful bodies.

My Ideal Person Free-spirited,fun-loving,broad-minded,adventure-seeking uninhibited sapiosexual couples,wedded or attached and bold,brave ladies ,preferably above 40 yrs who relish cocking a snook at reigning orthodoxy n patriarchy