Where to start Well, im 32, a 5050 switch, 511, 155lbs, blue eyes, brown hair, and in really really good shape. I have been into the this lifestyle since the age of 17. I am not a novice to most of this. Ive had the opportunity to be trained at times by wonderful Dommes and i cannot thank those individuals enough. You know who you are. I have been out of the scene off and on for a while due to building a career and all that jazz. Im always a busy body and LOVE meeting new people and networking.People think i come off as a little strong, and i might, but who wants a sissyI do NOT judge. Simple as that. People have judged me throughout my life because of my sexual orientation or because of my fetish choicesinterests. If you like this or that, more power to you. Doesnt mean i will like it, but if it floats your boat and you enjoy doing it, whos to stop you. All i ask is the same in return.Im probably one of the coolest people youll meet if our peralities mesh together. Im definately not normal....my Past and Present friends in and out of the lifestyle can attest to that The lifestyle is more of a mind fuck to me than being tied up and whipped. Granted, i dont neccessarily mind the latter, but i do live for the the raw sexual nature of the various fetishes i am interested and probably the ones you are interested in as well. The notion of friends in this lifestyle, that im compatible with as friends, interests me just as much as play partners and even a serious relationship with the right one. BTW, WARNING, IquotM KINKIER THAN LED TO BELIEVEI HATE bad grammar and when a per spells words such as quotyouquot, quotuquot! Boils my blood. I love good intelligent conversation. Ive found kinky people are more quotrealquot than others. Id like to get to know more people with the same basic interests as myself in hopes of surrounding myself with people I enjoy and visa versa.There are many things that i would like to learn more about and gain more experience in.